Being exciting enough is a good start when starting a good conversation. Yes, exciting. This is the most famous piece of free relationship advice recommended. You should be fascinating, and your subject must be equally fascinating. Women would always want to learn something and say Thats great! They would like to talk about people of course, celebrities, game shows, clothes, fashion, and a lot more. And women think that nothing beats a conversation with a little emotion in it. Because men are not as sensitive as women are, they shouldnt overdo this part. Men have the tendency to make up stories just to impress women not realizing that their stories are so far-fetched to be true. Real stories stimulate the emotional side of women that's why they like to talk about people so much.

For example you are seated at a bar and a woman approaches and sits on the stool beside you, first you nod and say hello, you might exchange pleasantries such as first names. Note this would be like dating online, for example. As you are planning to talk to a stranger, you need to be honest and simple with your words. This is because you are both strangers at a bar, not at a party, then you strike up a topic about your dog, say about something that happened to him with a sense of humor added in to take away the seriousness of the story. This would be considered pleasant conversation because it is almost as if you are just chatting in general and not carrying on a real heavy conversation.

Women are more excited to talk about people their lives, their families, their jobs, and just about anything about people like one of the interesting television shows that most women watch like Marry a Millionaire. Finding the interesting topic is the basic technique in this game.

Now not every men can just make up a story in their heads as they go talk, so if you are planning to to impress a woman on a date and are wondering how to go about starting up a conversation, you might want to consider writing a story. Imagine telling the memorized story to your date. Make all the people in the story seem real with personalities such as Andrew who always has the worst luck, or Bruce the cat who just loved biting your little sister. Be confident with yourself and with your story so that women may sense that you are sincere enough and that they can trust you.